First let me say how thankful I am that Iceain got me to join. She is a good friend and a big help to me. She referred me because my husband is an alcoholic and he may be moving back in with me and his daughter. (my step-daughter)
We need to learn a different way of dealing with it, neither little Kait or I are patient people, and we are going to have to learn to be somewhat more tolerant. He has been a heavy drinker for 30 years now, and the stay at rehab didn't work, he will not go to meetings at all. So we are looking for any suggestions we can get. We have already told him that he cannot have hard liquor in the house, but he is good at hiding things and drinks throughout the day. I have coffee and he has budweiser. His family has given up on him, so we are all he has and we would like to keep him around. But we are afraid that it is killing him.
Thanks for "listening" and any help or support will be greatly appreciated.
JayneKait
