one of the kids in my life is sitting in jail right now for possession & dui. i am sad - my daughter says he needs help mom. i say he has to ask for it i cant make him get it. she says help me mom - i said just come home, you've had to live with parents for high for 15 years, are you willing to do this with him? she says no i am not willing. i said just come home ched & lets talk. so now i am waiting for my kid to come home & see her heartbroken from the disease of addiction again - 1st from mine & her fathers & now from tommys. i want so much for her but not anymore of this kind of stuff. i pray for her strength, i pray for him also....we have all suffered....i am grateful for recovery today, i will stay clean.