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Why??-Do they.
Posted On: 07/29/2008 06:23:01

Why??-Do they.

 

Another great question that came from a friend. If we replace the word alcohol with any of a hundred words, the question and response are every bit as relevant.

Why does he behave like this? If hundreds of experiences have shown him that one drink means another debacle with all its attendant suffering and humiliation, why is it he takes that one drink? Why can't he stay on the water wagon? What has become of the common sense and will power that he still sometimes displays with respect to other matters?

Perhaps there never will be a full answer to these questions. Opinions vary considerably as to why the alcoholic reacts differently from normal people. We are not sure why, once a certain point is reached, little can be done for him. We cannot answer the riddle.

© 2001, AAWS, Inc., Alcoholics Anonymous, page 22

So have you pondered this question in your own life?

For me, the solution came in working the steps and making new footprints in life. It was suggested that I work them as I become ready, that I be guided through them by someone who had walked before me, and that I worked them in order. The results I’ve experienced and witnessed tell me the advice was sound!

People, who are basically sane, and usually intelligent, revert into “other” people when active in their addiction.

We pondered the “whys” at a great meeting last week and thoughts like “too smart” and “not at Bottom” came forward. As stated above, the riddle has no answer.

Why doesn’t matter, accepting what is and doing something positive about it does! There is hope for all who really want it! We welcome your questions.

Denial is not a river in Egypt!!

 

 

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07/30/2008 13:02:21

Dennis: love your point of view! The discussion is interesting, but one with no real answer! I shake my head as I see some that don't get it, and say a prayer for them and thanks for me!!

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07/29/2008 18:52:03

I've been to and on the Nile - and in denial as well. Angela is 100% right on the button - other than as a scientific curiosity, the question of why I did what I did is quite irrelevant in the context of my (and others) recovery. The immediate importance of why for me was far surpassed by the urgency to stop at any cost. My closest approximation or estimate today is I was insane. Irrational. A walking fruitcake.
     It would be like explaining how the color red looks to one blind from birth - two vastly different points of reference. Becoming sober and sane, you lose the point of reference. The best you will ever get is a circular or solipsistic argument from a drunk...

Well worth a debate, if nothing else,
Dennis

  



07/29/2008 07:04:47

I found that asking the question "why?" was for me, a form of procrastination.

 I was someone who was always asking why, and I'm still inquisitive. When I first came into recovery, at the promptings of others, I forbad myself to ask this question.

Everytime I heard WHY in my head, I reminded myself that it was irrelevant.

I was an expert on WHY and solely lacking in ACTION!
Denial I know well - one day I hope to visit The Nile

Love and Peace




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