Beyond 12 Steps
The following is lengthy, but well worth the read. It spells out learning that we incorporated into the "Co-Creative Process of Life Recovery". Additions we have made are indicted by the use of italics and underlining. We can be found at www.hopeserenity.ca or Google either "Recovery Coach" or Keith Bray.
Dos and don'ts for kicking addiction and treating alcoholism.
By Maia Szalavitz for MSN Health & Fitness

Although addiction and alcoholism treatment research has advanced tremendously since Alcoholics Anonymous was founded in 1935, many people do not know that equally effective alternatives to 12-step programs exist-nor do they know how to find them. In popular culture, AA is often portrayed as the only way.
Worse, while reality TV spotlights tough family "interventions" as a way of getting people to enter treatment and often shows rehab as a "boot camp" or exercise in humiliation, research finds that both these approaches have significant risks, and other less risky tactics have equivalent or superior benefits.
So, how can you find evidence-based addiction and alcoholism treatment for yourself or a loved one instead of-or as an addition to-12-step approaches?
Here are some "dos" and "don'ts" that can guide you to the best treatment.
1. Do start your search for treatment with a full psychological or psychiatric evaluation from an M.D. psychiatrist or Ph.D. psychologist.
At least 50 percent of people with alcohol or other drug addictions have an additional mental illness, such as depression, anxiety, attention-deficit disorder or bipolar disorder. But unfortunately, many addiction counselors do not have the expertise to diagnose these disorders-let alone treat them.
"If you go to a barber, you're going to get a haircut," says William Miller, Ph.D., emeritus professor of psychology and psychiatry at the University of New Mexico, a leading expert on addiction treatment. "If you go to a substance abuse treatment center you'll get substance abuse treatment, but they may not be well-equipped to deal with the other things that come along with it."
Adds Alan Marlatt, Ph.D., Professor and Director of the Addictive Behaviours Research Center at the University of Washington: "If you get a proper diagnosis and evaluation, someone may be able to offer integrated treatment to deal with both without having to be shunted back and forth between substance abuse and mental health centers."
Since people with mental illness often self-medicate with addictive drugs, treating those conditions can be critical to starting and sustaining recovery. However, in many cases, that isn't enough: Once someone has developed an addiction, even if the problem that the person was trying to medicate away has been solved, the addiction may continue.
Avoid the chicken-and-egg debate-treat both simultaneously for the best results; also, look for providers who specialize in "dual diagnosis."
Please note, at Hope & Serenity we are "associated" with a respected psychiatrist who assists with evaluation and looks after all medications.
2. Do look for therapists/coaches who use "empirically supported" or "evidence-based" treatments like cognitive behavioural therapy or motivational enhancement therapy.
Although many people believe that treatments must be proven to work before they can be used in practice, this is not the case for talk therapies like those used for addictions. In many states, an addiction counselor doesn't even need a high school degree-and some inpatient programs for teens are completely unregulated in terms of staff qualifications and basic health and safety requirements.
Keith Bray is a university graduate is a certified addiction coach and has worked with leading treatment programs and facilities.
Fortunately, there are several talk therapies that have been proven to help with addiction. These include cognitive behavioural therapy, motivational enhancement therapy (sometimes called motivational interviewing) and 12-step facilitation for those who are involved in 12 -step programs.
The model of the 12 Steps is used by Hope & Serenity as a foundation for success.
Cognitive behavioural therapy involves understanding and changing the thinking patterns that produce urges to use psychoactive substances as well as altering habits that drive the addiction. Motivational interviewing helps people increase their ability to change their addictive behaviour, by helping them achieve the goals they personally consider important. 12-step facilitation introduces people to 12-step programs like AA and Narcotics Anonymous and helps them affiliate with these support groups.
Matters are complicated by the fact that some people who claim to use specific techniques know all the right buzzwords but haven't been trained in the therapy, or don't apply it correctly. Ask about specific training; ideally see a practitioner with a master's degree or higher and for teens, look for such qualifications in those who treat them day-to-day at any program.
3. Do make sure you feel safe and understood by the therapist/coach or treatment approach you choose.
While evidence-based techniques are valuable, their effectiveness relies on the listening skills and empathy of therapists who use them. In fact, therapists' abilities in these areas are directly linked to good outcomes. A major part of coaching certification, and the success Hope & Serenity has enjoyed with clients, is the practise of "Deep" listening.
"You should feel respected and feel that the person is interested in understanding your perspective, not imposing their reality on you," Miller says. While many people feel that an ex-addict or alcoholic coach will be more likely to empathize, in fact, the coach's own experience is less relevant than her actual skills in relating to clients, he adds: "'Is this a kind person?' 'Did I come away with skills I didn't have before?' is a good litmus test."
Hope & Serenity provides a complimentary session to insure a good two way fit, and uses proven testing to help insure effective communications between coach and client.
4. Do get as much social support as possible-and don't limit your search to traditional support groups.
The research is clear that social support for a healthy lifestyle is an important part of recovery. But this doesn't have to come from 12-step groups-it can come from your friends, family, even from a hobby, church group or other interest group that opposes-or simply doesn't involve-drinking or other drug use. "Look for people who are rooting for you to get free," Miller says. "If you don't have them in your natural network, it's important to find them."
The "Creative Process of Life Recovery" used by Hope & Serenity is holistic, and encourages clients to develop a strong "life" network as well as the network clients may develop in 12 step programs.
Many churches, temples and mosques also have religion-specific recovery groups.
5. Do consider the use of anti-addiction medications.
This is not a field in which Hope & Serenity has expertise. As noted, we work in association with a fully qualified and experienced psychiatrist in this area.
Some anti-addiction medications offer considerable help to those trying to kick drugs, when used in conjunction with other support.
For alcohol, naltrexone (reVia) and Vivitrol (a longer acting naltrexone, only needed once a month) help reduce craving by blocking opioid receptors and reducing the "high" from drinking.
Acamprosate (Campral) works by calming the brain's glutamate system, which is believed to be over-active during alcohol withdrawal and thereafter (though some studies failed to find a benefit) and disulfiram (Antabuse) produces an extremely unpleasant reaction if alcohol is consumed.
Interestingly, Antabuse also seems to reduce cocaine use-and not just by making it impossible for people to drink while trying to come down or by causing a bad reaction to cocaine. "Something's going on," says Frank Vocci, Ph.D., director of the Division of Pharmacotherapy for the National Institute on Drug Abuse. "We're not quite sure what."
Two other medications that are approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration for other conditions, topiramate (Topamax) and ondansetron (Zotran), have also been found to help alcoholics quit. "There's sufficient evidence for physicians to feel comfortable prescribing them," says Vocci.
For heroin or painkiller addiction, buprenorphine (Suboxone, Subutex) can be used either for detox or for maintenance and can be prescribed by doctors, not just specialized clinics.
Methadone is also useful, especially for those who have used opioids for long periods of time at high doses. Maintenance treatment does not mean that the person is still "high" or "not really in recovery"-neither methadone nor buprenorphine produces ongoing impairment when used as prescribed.
For methamphetamine, new research suggests that for people who use less than 18 times a month, the antidepressant bupropion (Wellbutrin) may help increase abstinence.
6. Don't accept treatment that is confrontational, humiliating or degrading.
For much of the 20th century, addiction treatment involved humiliating rituals like being "confronted" and having your personality flaws attacked in brutal detail. "There's no evidence that it's helpful and there is evidence that it's harmful," says Miller, "Don't buy the line that it's good for you or the only language your addicted child can understand. There's no scientific evidence for it-it's simply cruelty."
At Hope & Serenity, we work in a spirit of trust, not confrontation. The positive growth of YOUR self-esteem is our focus.
7. Don't think a formal "intervention," in which family members confront the addict about his or her problem, is the only way to help.
Although the reality show "Intervention" presents this as current practice, there are gentler, more productive techniques. Community Reinforcement and Family Therapy has been found to be twice as effective in helping families get loved ones into recovery. A book on how to do it if you can't find a local coach/therapist who practices it is now available.
At Hope & Serenity, we do offer this service. We believe that addiction affects the whole family, and so does recovery. There are times when employers may be a part of the process.
Traditional interventions can produce family rifts and are even implicated in some suicides. "The evidence doesn't support it," Marlatt says. "Courtney Love pulled together an intervention on [rock star] Kurt Cobain. A few days later, he committed suicide."
In contrast, CRAFT offers positive steps to help families attract their loved ones into recovery. It teaches practical techniques to families which involve helping the addicted member associat