I think this site is somewhat new. But I've only just started looking at it, so I'm new too. I am many decades free of pot abuse, and 1-1/2 years free of all alcohol and drugs. Sugar, that's different matter!!! I'd have to say that my sweetie and chocolate cake are the two I can't kick.
My sweetie, my wife, is in the 2nd week of not her first in-patient recovery. Spent an intense Saturday yesterday in 4 "family day" programs with and without her. It is like a lense that intensely brings everything into sharp relief, and like a magnifying glass in how the energy is intensely transfered among us. Can't stop thinking about all the interchanges and faces and posibilities.
I'm a grateful Al-Anon and Dharma practitioner.