Welcome Guest Login or Signup
FEB 2008 UPGRADE | LIVE CHAT | INSTANT MESSENGER | BOOKMARK
| LANGUAGE:
 


Bookmark:
RSS 1.0     RSS 2.0

Total Views: 326 - Total Replies: 2

POSTED BY: sisstaloczz on 08/30/2007 05:47:24


I am uner so muc stree right now it;s un belielable,

by significant other and i are trying to stay clean together, and we are gettin some pretty negative feedback.

the firstthree months were in shamble. when he used, i used, when i used, he used. we realialize that this was not getting us any where so he went int treatment(i HAD GONE MANY TIMESBEFORE) now he is in out patien and home we aare both clean and want to stay rhat way.we do have much time under our belt but shouldlt peopl have more faith than this instead of tearing us down? even my sponsor

 





--------------------------------------------------------------
LitaH




POSTED BY: Cara on 08/31/2007 15:54:37


It is not going to be easy for you to recover together.  Any addict uses the addiction to cover over the problems in their life so they don't have to handle them.  So the problems build up and don't get tackled and get worse.  I guess that the pattern you have been following is that the one who is using gets away from the problems of the other who is in recovery but now you are both in the real world.  You need others around who can support you both while you recover, there is no way you can support each other.  It will be tough for a while but hang on in there and it will get better.  I would say don't make any decisions about your relationship until you are a good way into recovery and you can see straight.  But well done both of you, this is the best decision you ever made. Cara




--------------------------------------------------------------
Love bears all things, hopes all things, believes all things.
Back To Top




POSTED BY: sisstaloczz on 09/08/2007 09:39:14


thankyou we are hanging in there so far. we have had our ups and downs,just for today we are free




--------------------------------------------------------------
LitaH
Back To Top
12/01/2008



*** myRECOVERYspace ***
myRECOVERYspace