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SAVING IT FOR WHAT?
Posted On 12/18/2009 08:26:33 by KeithB

SAVING IT FOR WHAT?

I’m at an age and stage of life that more and more are hitting. We aren’t known as baby boomers for nothing; the population did explode following WWII! We’re here as proof.

One thing many of us have in common is aging parents and dealing with “stuff” as they go down hill and approach the end. “Stuff” includes material things such as china and silverware, fine linens, clothing and jewelry and more- “stuff” that was kept for special occasions and not used much.

Others may feel differently, but in dealing with my mother’s special things, I feel a sense of waste. Most of us have accumulated things over the years that are special to us, and what was special to my mother and not used much is not that special to me.

Today is a special day, a day meant to use some of my “special stuff”. What am I saving it for? If I can’t use it, it is better that I give it to someone that can enjoy it today!

Each of us has special stuff within as well as special material things. Today is a special today because it is a day we are living in. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.

A thought. What have you got in talents or possessions stashed away for special occasions? What will happen to those treasures and talents if you don’t see tomorrow? Don’t you think there will be a real waste?

I’ve never thought about things in this way before, but it is thoughts that just came, and came for a reason. As I move forward I will use those special things and talents as often as humanly possible. I have today, and that makes today very special.

I would love to here what thoughts cross your mind about saving things for special occasions. Share here on at www.hopeserenity.ca. I do look at ALL responses.

 

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From: Cara
12/18/2009 15:27:28

This came to me a few years ago and has slowly infected all of my life.  First it was clothes, anything I wasn't wearing or not likely to wear again going to charity, then the cupboards got cleared right out of all the junk you keep 'just in case'.  Then it was books I was unlikely to read again.  Now I really think twice about buying anything I will use once and sometimes borrow it instead.  And yes, money should be spent and talents should be utilised, life should be lived fully, you never know how much you have left.



From: DennisS
12/18/2009 13:24:03

Keith -


     "One man's gold is anothers junk", to turn a phrase. I am a pack rat. Everything is special to me. My kids already know that if they don't want it, just toss it. "Stuff" does the dead no good and it probably won't hurt my feelings.


     What few talents I have I make every attempt to have to the ready for every day use, just in case His will points me there. It's easier to have that spirit of giving very  day, instead of having to scrape the rust off once or twice a year...


Hugs,


Dennis



From: KeithB
12/18/2009 09:20:31

Put them to use my love!



From: Nia
12/18/2009 08:54:19

I was just thinking this morning about going through and cleaning out

things I haven't used in 6 mos or a year !   Nia





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