"Do not conform yourselves to the standards of this world, but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind" (Romans 12:2 TEV).
The way we act is determined by the way we feel. The way we feel is determined by the way we think. If we want to change the way we act, we've got to change the way we think. If we want to change a habitual pattern of improper anger management—pouting, blowing up, criticizing, etc.—then we need to have some mental reconditioning.
God's Word fills your thoughts; you're transformed by the renewing of your mind. It's going to change you.
The truth is, angry people are insecure people. The more insecure I am, the more things tick me off. The more insecure I am, the more upset I get and the more irritable I am.
But here's the thing: when you understand how much God loves you and you understand your security in Christ, when you understand how much you matter to God, then you are less likely to be irritable.
I had a hard lesson to learn this week with someone that hurt me really bad. I got very angry and I wanted to quit my job. The old “insecure” garbage started creeping into my soul. I had a headache for two days and a stomach ache because I got so upset. Who's winning here? Not me.
I have to remember that EVERY DAY I know that God loves me. I know who I am in Christ and I’m on the winning team.
Sure, it’s going to be uncomfortable for awhile facing this person, but if it brings God Glory, then it’s worth it.
Love to all, Tina
