I feel serenity!
My wife has shared with me her sorrow, fear and worries. I have been there for her, listening, asked questions and talked to her... BUT I have not taken over her feelings and made them mine! I have felt good even if she hasn't! God is good!
In addition to that i have not lost a single ounce of my love to her, i have not shut down a single emotion in my heart. I have felt a little sad beacuse she doesn't feel good, but it has been MY feeling, not hers, and i have allowed me to feel good in the midst of everything!
Praise the Lord!