Well, my friend was drinking before he even left the hospital grounds. I was pretty discouraged and depressed for a while, but could not give up hope entirely. Now he is sober for about seven days. We attended an AA meeting two days ago, together. When I found him at the hospital, again drunk, I said things I KNEW I shouldn't, accusing, blaming. I know this does no good for either of us. As he again starts down his road with AA, I will try to take to heart my own steps, trusting all to God and striving for serenity. Thanks to all for thier kind supportive words.