It is interesting to me that when you are sure of something,thats when you are most likely to be wrong.The way I used to relate to my wife,I was sure that she would always accept me as I was.Wrong! As I was staying the same, she was working on herself.

I was sure that I would always be with her because I was sure that she wanted me to be with her.Wrong 2x! As I was not paying attention to her needs,she was.I am finding out just how valuable a good bout of self-questioning is.

I was sure that my patterns of behavior were acceptable to myself,my family,my friends.Wrong 3x! My patterns were only tolerated,passed off as that's just the way I am.

Surety, in my case leads to complacency and a lack of self-evaluation.And I dont think that was a good place for me to be in.

Thanks for being here.

Peace,Donovan

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