Find some meetings, get active-get a sponsor, work the steps- you won't be lonely much !

 I was told: no major changes, to stay single - no dating/ relationships, for a year-

I needed at least that to build my relationship with myself and a Higher power-

I am grateful to have followed that suggestion!        Nia

Keep prayin girlfriend! Loneliness comes and goes, like everything else. I can totally relate. I am almost year and a half sober and do not have a significant other either. I still know that I am not ready. I believe that God will bring someone into my life that is good for me when I am good and ready for it. It definitely does suck being lonely though. I have a dog and a cat, but sometimes they just don't cut it. When I am in my bed at nite extra lonely, I ask God to cuddle me! I know it sounds weird, but I swear it works! I tell Him and I am lonely, and then ask Him to hold me and comfort me.
God Bless sweetie
-Jessie

I completely understand you, and I'm married!! I feel so lonely at times, I have not given myself time for rest due to the fear of feeling to alone.... It comes with the teritory I geuss.. If you ever need or want to chat I'm here!!

YF,
Lola