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So Glad She's not MY mother!!
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I have been going thru some stuff lately. I real good friend of mine, was killed in a motorcycle accident a few weeks ago and my friends and family didn't tell me until I heard about it, which was yesterday. My friend was riding his "crotch rocket" motorcycle and slammed into the back of a pickup and the tail hitch went thru the front of his helmet and broke his neck. He died instantly. He was a really really good rider, but I realize that one can die at any time in life. He left behind a terrific family. My friend was only a little older than me, so this is bugging me alot. My friend even asked me out (long time ago) to ride on his bike, but I kept saying no. I feel little bit guilty that I didn't even give him a chance and take that ride, I love motorcycles! I keep thinking about all the things I could do in life if I just take a chance. Life is so short. The next thing that is bothering me is, my b/f mother is at her usual it again. She wrote a letter to my b/f (who is in rehab) and told him that my brother had said some things to some of our customers at work, who also live in the community (and know us all). The "gossip" from my b/f mother is that my brother allegedly said that my b/f beat me up so bad I was in the hospital. I told my b/f...1. I would have heard of this so called rumor, 2. why am I walking around at work if I am supposedly in the hospital? I asked my b/f WTF is your mother doing now??!! She doesn't like me. ok. I can deal. But to start sh*t like this AGAIN. I really want to confront her about this, but I know to not go there, this is up to my b/f to set his mother straight. This morn my b/f called me and said he is going to have the director of the rehab where he is at call his mother and tell her this crap has to stop. It is hendering his recovery process. I told him that on the first lie she told him, it should have be stopped. Get this, she has even called his rehab before he got there and "warned" them about me calling. I wouldn't call, for one, because, my b/f is in rehab to get himself better and he needs to concentrate on himself, but for her to call his rehab and tell them HER version of me, is, in my opinion, jeopardizing his recovery process. He now feels he can't open up to them b/c of what his mother had done. This woman even has planned her son's life out for the next two years!! My b/f is so upset at his mother, but on the bright side my b/f told me not to worry about us, he knows his mother is so way out of line. He even told me that he is proud of me, even though I only have been going to online meetings, but he knows I'm trying my best to work the program. His mother has always been the type of person who likes to have control of everyone. I even feel some of his addiction, stems from her sh*t. She messed up his last relationship, I know for a fact. I love my b/f very much and I plan on sticking by him. He and I are so excited to explore life, sober. His mother does not understand that. His ex, helped hide his problem from from his family for over 12years, I was the one who brought it out into the open, b/c my b/f was going to end up dying and I did not want that to happen. Now his family blames me for their son's addiction, but you know what? My b/f owns up to his addiction, so I feel we have a good chance of making life good. I wish his family would only see it that way.
Thanks for letting my vent.
Have a blessed day.
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