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Are You a Cowboy or Indian? Cop or Robber?
Posted On 06/20/2008 05:49:00 by KeithB

Are You a Cowboy or Indian? Cop or Robber?

 

When ever I go to a meeting and keep my ears open, I hear good and memorable stuff that make me remember and keep me humble.

I’m sure it’s not politically correct to talk about indigenous people as “Indians”, but fact of the matter, when I was a kid, we played cowboys and Indians. If it sounds better, then call it cops and robbers.

I heard someone today say that as a young person, he always played a cowboy but really knew inside he was an Indian.

Man, can I relate.

The next generation I think called it L-O-S-E-R.

No matter the handle, I grew up always feeling inside that I wasn’t good enough, that I didn’t belong. I always wanted to be the hero, but never cut it in my own head.

Through a great journey full of great people-mentors, coaches, family, friends and groups- I transformed into a cowboy that I respect.

I have the pleasure of working with people both locally and on a global basis and watch them, through the unleashing of the power within them, turn into cowboys-whether it is in dealing with addictions, setting and reaching goals, building relationships or finding life purpose and awakening spiritually. It’s great to be able to finally live your dream, and know you are doing what you were meant to do.

So are you ready to be a cowboy, the true and great person you were really intended to be?

Take that first step and allow yourself a big life!

Are You a Cowboy or Indian? Cop or Robber?

 

When ever I go to a meeting and keep my ears open, I hear good and memorable stuff that make me remember and keep me humble.

I’m sure it’s not politically correct to talk about indigenous people as “Indians”, but fact of the matter, when I was a kid, we played cowboys and Indians. If it sounds better, then call it cops and robbers.

I heard someone today say that as a young person, he always played a cowboy but really knew inside he was an Indian.

Man, can I relate.

The next generation I think called it L-O-S-E-R.

No matter the handle, I grew up always feeling inside that I wasn’t good enough, that I didn’t belong. I always wanted to be the hero, but never cut it in my own head.

Through a great journey full of great people-mentors, coaches, family, friends and groups- I transformed into a cowboy that I respect.

I have the pleasure of working with people both locally and on a global basis and watch them, through the unleashing of the power within them, turn into cowboys-whether it is in dealing with addictions, setting and reaching goals, building relationships or finding life purpose and awakening spiritually. It’s great to be able to finally live your dream, and know you are doing what you were meant to do.

So are you ready to be a cowboy, the true and great person you were really intended to be?

Take that first step and allow yourself a big life!

Tags: Keith Bray Www.hopeserenity.ca Addiction Mentor



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06/20/2008 08:54:57


Comparing my insides to other people's outsides causes me problems.
--Joan Rohde


For
most of our lives we felt inferior. Others seemed smarter, wittier, and
more attractive. We felt inadequate every time we compared ourselves to
others. Getting sober hasn't freed us from this behavior, at least not
completely. Fortunately, we now have tools that we can use in changing
behavior that hinders our growth.

Talking with a sponsor,
sharing with a friend, or asking God for help frees us from the hold of
negative behaviors. Comparing ourselves to others doesn't have to shame
us any longer. All that's necessary is to stop the thought, think
instead of God's presence within, and quietly bless ourselves and the
person who unknowingly triggered our reaction. Our progress in changing
this shortcoming will be as swift as our decision to take this simple
action.

I am in control of my thoughts. God will help me every time I start to compare myself to someone else today.



06/20/2008 07:10:15

  My cousin and I shared the roles of chief ; down to a nice feather headdress. Bows and arrows,  a stuffed hay target ... played in earnest with reverence.

My favorite picture is of him, dressed -to- the- nines, with a reflective faraway look.

It was a big life then- All possibilities (of pirates, knights, Sherlock Holmes, Robin hood) probably because we read so many books. A great deal of history too-

civil war, etc. As I remember, tried all roles, prisoners to presidents ... Nia






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