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bumps in the road
Posted On 03/09/2008 06:57:31 by biggybiggs74

i was having an awesome discussion with one of my sponcees tonight. the subject of bumps in the road came up. he said after a year and a half he doesn't have those bumps in the road. and we started exploring this. i mean i have a few days behind me but i still have bumps in the road. there are character defects that arise that i happily return to God with and humbly ask him to remove. we talked on about those bumps actually being learning blocks in life. people, places, things or situations put in my life to allow me the ability to grow. about how step 10 allows me to reflect over the day and see where self had crept in.  i think i know where he was coming from. and this is kinda the conclusion we ended up with. that although there may be bumps in the road, by his grace the craterous pot-holes are no longer there. the big chunks out of the road i'm walking today God has filled. and the bumps on my path, the ones that once looked like mountains to me, don't seem to be so impossible.

with the help of God, living life on lifes terms, one day at a time. isn't that awesome to be able to do that today. to be given the strength to move forward today and not dwell over yesterday. to be able to learn and grow from our experiences, and to be able to share those with other people. WOW how truely blessed we are. with this program and the people in it. thank all of you for being here.

hugs
billy



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From: Nia
03/11/2008 07:34:05

"Bumps in the road " how well I inflated them early on- after a while when I got better about turning things over- I began to laugh a bit- which in my case is always GOOD...

Short comings are what tripped me up-I finally started to think of them as the things that tripped me & tangled my view of defects....Nia



From: jd
03/09/2008 12:54:41

i still have bumps.  sometimes huge.  than i do a quick 10 step.  i determine the size of those bumps.  when i keep God close, it's a thrill ride down hill with the wind blowing in my face.  when i keep Him away, i struggle up huffing and puffing till i realize i need to lean on him.  i determine how big my struggles will be by choosing to walk alone or beside my HP. 

super sharing.  thanks.



From: biggybiggs74
03/09/2008 10:09:20


DennisS wrote:


Billy -
     I think that for me those craterous pot holes are spoken well of in the BB; "We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us." Poof, no more baffled.
     Sure, I still have to live life, so the occasional fastball comes along and zings me - but it's just a minor annoyance, not the earth shaking drama that used to end as an excuse to get drunk. I deal with them and move on. For the really tough ones I can fall back on the lesson I learned around the tables - sober friends and sponsor.
     Yeah - it is a blessing. One that gives us more blessings by being able to recognize it as one...

Back at ya,
Dennis




thanks for the reply dennis. its great to hear from how are things? hope your weekend has been great. i agree with you whole heartedly. sober freinds and sponcers. those with whom have found and/or are seeking the solution. solution being a power greater than myself. the one thing that could return my life to sanity. i beleive that my HP works strongly through others. he works through you when i read you posts.thanks for being here dennis. have an awesome day



From: DennisS
03/09/2008 09:49:33

Billy -
     I think that for me those craterous pot holes are spoken well of in the BB; "We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us." Poof, no more baffled.
     Sure, I still have to live life, so the occasional fastball comes along and zings me - but it's just a minor annoyance, not the earth shaking drama that used to end as an excuse to get drunk. I deal with them and move on. For the really tough ones I can fall back on the lesson I learned around the tables - sober friends and sponsor.
     Yeah - it is a blessing. One that gives us more blessings by being able to recognize it as one...

Back at ya,
Dennis





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