I am aware of the things from my past that I hid from my family. With so many years of addiction. But alot of them are still in addiction so I don't have to apologize to them? Just the one's I hurt I have done that. God is the one I rely on and I give him my pain & my worries. I can't live holding on to all the pain of my past anymore. I had to get rid of it forever. I can now start over attracting the good things in life I deserve for being clean & sober for the past 2 yrs now? I des... Read More

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Howdy all -

    No pictures today. The title for this blog was a gift from Keith B. He has the innate ability to ferret things out - like where the hell is the court jester?  I was going to tell him I have stopped by the site, answered a few messages - so I've been around, kinda. just not feeling well or some BS.  Just blow him off. But the truth is I have been 100% MIA where it counts. No - I didn't go back out, still sober as any one of our ilk can... Read More

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I DON'T GET IT!
How often I hear these words from clients and/or people I sponsor. I constantly witness insanity at work; doing the same thing repeatedly expecting different results! DUH---don't get it?
In my pro bono service work I try to never say no to someone who genuinely asks for help IF I am qualified to help. In my paid coaching work, because I guarantee results, I am very particular as to who I accept as clients. In both cases, to get it, to make very big life changes-not just... Read More

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SHOWING YOU CARE
How do you show you care?
"Love is not only something you feel. It is something you do." -- David Wilkerson
Step one in my recovery of life was learning how to truly love and care for myself. Then I had a whole new challenge. I could now allow myself to feel and express feelings. How was this to change my behaviour towards others I loved? In his IDEA ENGINEER, my coaching coach, Randin Brons gives some things to provoke thought.
"In her book, 'No Less Than Greatne... Read More

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BELIEVE IN YOU!
Once again my coaching mentor Randin Brons has struck a cord in his IDEA ENGINEER. One that is the essence of coaching and one worth sharing!
"Believe in your unlimited potential
"You cannot see anything that you do not first contemplate as a reality." -- Ramtha
How do you typically define yourself? Do you tell yourself and others that you are slow and methodical, that you have two left feet, that you are lazy, or unimaginative or that you can't hang on to money?... Read More

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