Right now at this very minute.... 

Someone is very proud of you. 

Someone is thinking of you. 

Someone cares about you. 

Someone misses you. 

Someone wants to talk to you. 

Someone wants to be with you. 

Someone hopes you aren't in trouble. 

Someone wants to hold your hand. 

Someone wants you to be happy just for you. 

Someone thinks you are a gift. 

So... Read More

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Well it has been a very long time since I have been here, I got all called up in this thing we call life I guess. I thought I had everything all figured out. Maybe some days are just easier to face than others....I will update you all a bit since I don't recall when the last time I posted was. 

I have been divorced since March 9 of this year. As some of you know I lived in a horrible situation and it was up and down and touch and go for years. In the beginning things were difficult... Read More

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43 months sober. and still acting like an alcoholic. acting? c'mon, it's who i am. haven't been living an honest life. moved myself out of my house last night. been complaining about my spouse for years, dealing with issues that seem to never go away. used to drink over it, now...they're still there. but how much is me? her?

odd, while living with her, i would never be fully honest about things...my dealings, whereabouts, purchases made on the sly. such bullsh*t. living in denial about... Read More

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AM I ADDICTED?? (A Test)

As a “Certified Addictions Life Coach” I have several tests available to me to help you answer the question. What I think is unimportant; all that matters is the conclusions you draw.

Rather than reinvent the wheel, I am quoting material from Jan Edward Williams which I completely support. While Jan specifically mentions alcohol, by and large that... Read More

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2012-Mission to Improve Self-esteem

To be of service to others, I do a lot of reading and research. Original thinking is fine but what I know and coach originated from others.

The biggest issues I help others to come to grips w... Read More

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